A wedding is the one occasion where we all gather together to celebrate love - a community of family and friends encircling those at its centre with all their warmth, good wishes and hopes for their lasting happiness. 

I invite you to bring a new and fresh sense of liberation to this most cherished of rituals. To add in your own emotional needs and spiritual and non-spiritual beliefs, weaving all the elements together to create a brand new kind of wedding ceremony,  one that celebrates who you are and what you hope to become together, something bespoke and bold, meaningful and magical.

We kick off with making a time for a free half hour discovery call, via Skype or Zoom, at a time that works for you.

I will also send you a piece I wrote all about creating weddings with wonder, which will give you a lot of questions to consider and which will help you to begin visioning your perfect ceremony.

Then, if you feel like taking the next step, we can book your 3 hour deep dive, a stand alone session that will equip you with all the tools you need to start creating - whether with me, or with another celebrant, minister or friend.

I also offer training if you would like my help in preparing the person of your choice to officiate on the big day.


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A powerful, personalised, exploratory session on board a beautiful houseboat in the heart of London

  • Explore the creative possibilities of a ceremony that is designed to fit you perfectly

  • Discover wonderful ways to include your family and friends in your love

  • Understand how to create your own meaningful moment, incorporating your beliefs and values

  • Begin to devise your unique vows that will bind your future lives together forever

  • Go away fizzing with new ideas and masses of inspiration

Initial consultation - a standalone payment of £300

(If you should choose to work with me following this, the fee acts a deposit)


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This is a profound, intense, creative, intimate and carefully held journey, which takes you deep into the heart of your love story, exploring the foundation of your relationship, creating all aspects of a meaningful ceremony that truly serves to carry you into a new chapter in your life together.

I offer an utterly bespoke hand-held creative process, designed to help you create the ceremony of your dreams, with one to one attention and expertise on all aspects of the creation of your ceremony, from the initial brainstorm to delivering your service. 

The journey we go on together spans head, heart and spirit. It takes many months of meetings, conversation, emotion, visioning, planning and processing it all until it can be distilled into a one off wedding ceremony that will not only touch not the hearts of all those present, but that is specially designed to carry you safely into a long and happy future together.

It is intimate, intense and will go a long way to deepening both your understanding of your commitment to each other and also how lasting love can work. We address the unique nature of your relationship, the shadows and potential trip hazards up ahead, as well as the blessings and beauties that make your love so strong and special. The process also takes into account the complexities of your respective families and the community in which you live, so that you can bring everyone together to strengthen your love, including them in your marriage that it thrives into the years and decades ahead, held in a safe and strong container.

I bring all my skills to this work, from intuitive coach to spiritual guide, from creative facilitator to Oxford educated writer, public speaker and - when called for - professional singer.

the preparation -

The deep dive into the why, the what and your unique love story

  • Support in uncovering the unique workings of your relationship – and how best to help it thrive for the rest of your days

  • Weaving your family and friends into your ceremony

  • Incorporation of specific wedding rituals from other cultures as well as the creation of brand new traditions just for you

  • Help with writing the most powerful, beautiful and personalised vows to best express your love and commitment

  • Recommendations of supporting services where needed, including florists, photographers, headdresses, musicians, magical unusual venues

  • All my gifts as a professional writer with a degree in English from Oxford devoted to the writing of your personal wedding service, yours to keep forever after


The Big Day

  • Early arrival to ensure the ceremonial space is ready, the players are all assembled and ready to take part and the right music is cued

  • On hand to calm any fears and reconnect you to the love at the centre of your day

  • Delivering your ceremony with all the love and intelligence in my power

  • Holding a space that fills the room with the powerful intention of your lifelong union coming into form before our very eyes

  • Offering my undivided attention, professionalism and care until the very last moment when you are ushered off into your future life together, bound by love

  • The written service which is sent the day after your wedding, so you can revisit every word and relive every moment while relaxing on your honeymoon

The process of creating a truly personal, powerful and handmade wedding ceremony takes approximately

24 hours of my time @ £100 per hour, and it includes:

8+ hours of meetings in person, 8+ hours writing time, the wedding day itself, plus unlimited calls, emails and any follow up after the day, including writing out the handwritten ceremony in full for you to keep forever.  

Optional extra: A site visit to rehearse the ceremony right before the big day

Estimated complete cost (excl. travel) - £2400

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